Friday, June 26, 2009

grieving...

Yesterday (Wednesday) during an ultrasound at the hospital, Becky and Steve found out that their baby died. It was hard. Again.
Today was the D&E. Becky is weary, and feeling mostly tired of surgeries and procedures right now. She will remain in the hospital while they troubleshoot some pain in her back.
She is grateful to know that so many care for her, and are inquiring about her well-being.
Thank you for your prayers and offers for support.
Right now the best thing we can do is honor her request for privacy.
~Jenny
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30 comments:

  1. CindiJune 26, 2009 at 3:15 PM

    So, so very sorry to hear this...praying for comfort and peace...and for Becky's well-being.

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  2. ellenJune 26, 2009 at 4:19 PM

    I'm sad for their family. When you get to give Betsy a hug, give her one for me.

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  3. maliJune 26, 2009 at 4:44 PM

    So sorry for your loss.
    Love you so much!!!
    Hang in there.

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  4. LLJune 26, 2009 at 5:36 PM

    XOXO from me.

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  5. ChefTomJune 26, 2009 at 5:50 PM

    Love and prayers to Becky, Steve and the rest of the family.

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  6. LaurabethJune 26, 2009 at 8:28 PM

    Love you Becky!

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  7. smart mamaJune 26, 2009 at 9:07 PM

    thinking about you B and sending lots of love.

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  8. JaneJune 27, 2009 at 12:25 AM

    My heart is breaking for you.
    You will be in my prayers.
    Love and hugs.

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  9. ~ eRiN ~June 27, 2009 at 10:52 AM

    I'm so sorry. I love you guys. I'll keep you all in my prayers.

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  10. KeriLyn and MatthewJune 27, 2009 at 12:36 PM

    Sorry to hear this....our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you, and take it easy for a little while.

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  11. paulakJune 27, 2009 at 2:28 PM

    You are an amazing woman, facing some incredible trials. The STRONGEST get hit the hardest. You are in my prayers. Love you!

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  12. NicoleJune 27, 2009 at 4:59 PM

    :( thinking and praying for you all!!

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  13. RachaelJune 27, 2009 at 6:06 PM

    You are in my thoughts and prayers Becky.

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  14. shirlgirlJune 27, 2009 at 9:25 PM

    So sorry Becky and Steve. We send you our love. Aunt Shirley and Uncle David

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  15. AprilJune 27, 2009 at 10:23 PM

    We are so deeply sorry for your loss. We love you dearly and are praying for you daily!

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  16. amy stanselJune 28, 2009 at 10:53 PM

    Becky I am so so sorry to hear of your loss!! You have been through so much. You are in my prayers. Much much love!!

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  17. Rachel DurazzaniJune 29, 2009 at 7:08 AM

    Becky, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers.

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  18. SojournerJune 29, 2009 at 12:15 PM

    I'm thinking about you,how much courage you have.Hang in there.

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  19. AnonymousJune 29, 2009 at 12:23 PM

    Love and prayers from Oregon.
    Dee

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  20. Heather O.June 29, 2009 at 11:31 PM

    Oh Becky, that totally sucks. Why oh WHY does it take so much to get our kids here? I'll never know. Praying for you tonight. Sending you some chocolate in the morning.

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  21. nanciJune 30, 2009 at 9:23 AM

    So sorry, Becky and family! Prayers and loving thoughts are being sent your way.

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  22. AnonymousJuly 1, 2009 at 12:11 AM

    Oh Becky, my friend. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and can't imagine what your family must be going through, again. My thoughts are always with you and your family. Love you, Donna (hugs)

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  23. Homeschool MomJuly 2, 2009 at 4:20 PM

    I love you Becky. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  24. hotairfilter@sbcglobal.netJuly 2, 2009 at 9:47 PM

    I'm so sorry, Becky. My thought are with your family.

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  25. MichelleJuly 3, 2009 at 2:23 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you!! You have been through sooooo much. Sometimes its hard to understand why things happen. I am praying for you

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  26. ErinJuly 5, 2009 at 12:41 AM

    Becky,
    I am so sorry. I missed this post earlier. My heart aches for you. I was updating one of my friends on you earlier today and thought I had better check in. I love you and miss you and hope you have peace. I am so sorry.

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  27. Adam and AnyaJuly 5, 2009 at 2:04 PM

    Hang in there Becky. I wish I could do more for you, and I hope you feel loving comfort right now. Much love!

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  28. JaneJuly 6, 2009 at 10:45 AM

    Just wanted you to know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers.

    (((hugs))

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  29. AliJuly 6, 2009 at 11:53 PM

    Becky & Steve - That breaks my heart to read the last post about your baby. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Love You and hope to see you in the near future. Love Alison B.

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  30. barryblogJuly 8, 2009 at 12:08 AM

    Becky, I am so sorry. When I lost Journee, my second in a row, my heart felt broken. I still feel broken some days and seeing that you have this same pain makes me feel it all over again. I am so sorry. I know that doesn't help, but I know what you are going through. I hope you recover quickly. Be thankful you have 2 angels together... That is one way I get through the day. Heavenly Father loves you and will bless you for giving this sweet spirit a body. I will be thinking of you.

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